We all struggle with how best to tell our unsaved families about Jesus, and there
are no easy answers. But Jewish holidays provide wonderful opportunities for
witnessing. Our redemption from Egypt is so typical of the way God works His
salvation plans. And the well-known theme of the lamb’s shed blood can help you
explain His plan to others. You might find some of these suggestions helpful:
- If you are a relatively new believer, be sure your family and friends know
about your faith before the family gathering. Passover is no time to
announce that you have accepted Jesus. The shock would likely detract
from your family’s enjoyment of the holiday and prevent them from
considering spiritual things.
- If you visit someone else’s home for Passover, do not come empty-handed.
Whether or not you have money to spend, you can show appreciation for
your host/hostess. This means as much to family members as it would to
anyone else. Anything from a box of macaroons (kosher for Passover, of
course!) to a bouquet of flowers would be a thoughtful contribution and a
good testimony.
- Be familiar with the Passover Haggadah. Maybe your family and friends
assume your belief in Jesus proves that you are the least knowledgeable at
the table. You might startle them into listening to you by showing
competence in knowing and doing the traditions of Passover.
- If you have children who are old enough, teach them to ask the four
questions. It is good to educate your children in important Jewish
traditions and it is important for your family to see that you care about
these things.
- If possible, invite a Jewish or Gentile Christian friend to the seder. If it is not
in your home, be sure to check with whoever is hosting the seder. It would
be good moral support for you to have another believer present. Also,
whereas a prophet is sometimes "without honor in his own town," a
believing friend might gain a better hearing.
- Be humble and gentle in your testimony. In many homes, the Passover
celebration has deteriorated from a God-ordained rite to just another
family get-together with the main emphasis on the meal. Be careful that you
don’t become condescending or harsh if this is true of your family. Except
for the grace of God, you wouldn’t have the spiritual sight to know the
difference! Your family will not be open to hearing you if they feel your
attitude is judgmental.
- Remember that Passover is a festive time and conduct your witness accordingly.
Our witness shouldn’t be stuffy or overly theological. It should be serious and
yet joyous!
Whether you are a guest or have the privilege to host the family seder this year,
pray, pray, pray that God will give you wisdom and courage to make the most of
your opportunities. The Apostle Paul wrote: “Preach the word! Be ready in season
and out of season” (2 Timothy 4:2). So, let’s be ready this Passover season!